It is a paradox. Love is the best thing in the world and the worst thing in the world at the same time. As much as it is a wonderful thing to be in love with someone, it hurts as much when you lose that special person. So, what is the wise thing to do? Experience the highs and lows of love life or stay away from it and stay okay?

Love or not to love


Life’s Best Thing?

Well, a life without experiencing the best things of life is a life wasted. So getting in love is a must for everyone. But since you are handing a big part of you to the one you are in love with, you must be careful while giving your heart away. Someone who you love and who loves you back will make you the happiest person in the world. So the first thing is to make sure that your feelings are reciprocated. The other person must care for you as much as you care for them. This will help to make sure that the other person does not hurt you. Not rushing into a relationship is important too; you must give yourself appropriate time to judge someone and work out their personality and the good and bad things about them. Only then, can you get into a relationship that works and a love that lasts.

As You Sow, So Shall You Reap

A golden rule of life is that don't do something to someone that you don't want for yourself. If you don't want to get hurt, then don't ever hurt anyone. If everyone followed this rule, then the world would be a heaven to live in. However, as everything is not as ideal as that, you have to be careful while giving your heart away.

If you are careful and smart about it, you can get the best things out of love and avoid the worst things. And this is what I would suggest all of us should do. Okay, there is a chance that someone will get hurt, but it's a small one and can be avoided if you act smartly, And the things that you are getting in return are too precious to not look for.